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Tuesday, May 3, 2011

A man not too provocative.


张扬,是一种处处显示自己优势、有本领的行为,是一种强烈的表现欲的极端化、超限度化。例如有一点权,他就不可一世;哪怕是有了微不足道的一点小成就,他便在别人面前以之为骄傲的资本喋喋不休,唯恐别人不知道。这种行为,都给人一种张扬的感觉。

     张扬实际是一种心理不健全的表现。张扬来自一种心理幻觉。凡是比较喜欢张扬的人,大都自我感觉良好,哪怕自己十分委琐,也能自以为了不起。一有这样的感觉,人便会自大起来。张扬的人,只要自己有一点成就,有一点他自认为的过人之处,便会产生一种幻觉,他们便自高自大起来,表现在行动上便是张扬。

     张扬是一种不自信。从表面上看,张扬者好像不可一世,处处在显示自己的优越。也许他们也真的认为自己了不起,但如果能真正深入到他们的内心世界,我们便会发现他们的内心是空虚的。一些人的张扬往往是由于不自信造成的。过度的张扬,带来的往往是不良的后果。

       过度的张扬会使其失去威信。凡是爱张扬的人,从心理上说,他们是不自信,且把一些不足挂齿的东西幻觉化,因而他们在行动上常常以显示自己的优势、表现自己的能耐作为行为准则。他们认为这样可以提高自己在人们心中的威信,殊不知适得其反。人们实际上是最讨厌那些张扬的人的。人们的接受心理往往有一种奇特的现象:如果一个人有能耐,他自己多些谦虚,少些张扬,人们会对他报以尊敬;如果他自我感觉太好,自我炫耀多于实事求是,人们便会对他报以不屑。

     过度的张扬会带来不期之祸。做人要谨慎,这是为人之至理。就是你真的学有所长,有个人之处,也不应该张扬。如果你因自己在某方面优越便不知天高地厚,处处显示自己,时时表现自己,便很容易给自己带来不期之祸。

     由此可见,人不能太张扬,张扬实际是一种张狂。俗语中有“人狂没好事,狗狂挨砖头”之说。说得文雅一些,人如果太张扬便会给自己带来麻烦;说得难听一些,如果不想做挨砖头的狗,就绝不能做太张扬的。
Publicity, is a always show their own advantage, capable of the act, a strong desire for extreme performance, over the limits of. For example, the right thing, he arrogant; even have a little insignificant achievements, he was in front of others in the proud capital of chatter, lest others do not know. This behavior, give a sense of publicity.

     
Zhang Yang is actually a mentally ill performance. Publicity from a psychological illusion. Those who prefer quieter people, mostly feel good about themselves, even their very petty, but also think highly of himself. Have such a feeling, people will be arrogant up.
Publicity, as long as they have little success, one thing he thought he excels, there will be an illusion, they puffed up, and in the action is the publicity.

     
Zhang Yang is a non-confidence. On the surface, Writer Who as arrogant, everywhere in the show their superiority. Perhaps they truly believe that great, but if we can really go deep into their inner world, we will find that their hearts are empty. Some of the publicity is often caused because of insecurity.
Excessive publicity, often caused by adverse consequences.

       
Excessive publicity will make it lose credibility. People who love publicity, psychologically that they are not confident, and the illusion of some of the things worth mentioning, so they are often in action to show their advantage to show his ability as a code of conduct. They think that they can improve their credibility in people's minds, not knowing just the opposite. It is actually the most unassuming people who hate. People often have a strange psychological phenomenon: If a person has ability, he more modest, with less publicity, people will report to him with respect; if he feel good, more realistic ego, people
He will report to disdain.

     
Excessive publicity will bring unexpected disaster. Be careful man, this is human matter to management. Is that you really learn a director, a man of the Department, nor should it publicity.
If you are in some way because of his superior to be bragging, always show themselves from time to time to express themselves, they will easily bring their own unexpected disaster.

     
Thus, people can not too provocative, publicity is actually a insolent. Saying there is "no good people mad, mad dogs suffer brick," said. Put it elegant, too assertive person who will bring their own problems; put it bluntly some, if the bricks do not want to endure the dog, can never do too aggressively.

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